The Spicy Trivia Date Night Kit
Spicy Trivia works with nothing but two phones and a drink. But the toy wheel names real things, and a few cheap props make the dares better. Here are the eight items worth having on the table, with a note on where each one shows up in the game.
The kit
Satin blindfold
Toy wheel and spicy wheelThe single most useful thing on this list. It turns a simple dare into a slow one and it costs about as much as a coffee. Get one that stays dark without pinching.
Shop satin blindfold on Amazon →Soft handcuffs
Toy wheelFabric or fur-lined, with a quick release. Metal novelty cuffs are a bad idea: they hurt and the keys go missing. Soft cuffs are comfortable for a whole game.
Shop soft handcuffs on Amazon →Dare dice
Great for custom daresTwo dice, one with actions and one with body parts. Roll them whenever the wheel lands on a dare you both want to remix, or write the combinations into the custom-dares list before you start.
Shop dare dice on Amazon →Massage oil
Reward wheel upgradeSwap any reward for a two-minute massage. Warming oil turns 'you win nothing' into the best slice on the wheel. Unscented if either of you has sensitive skin.
Shop massage oil on Amazon →Ankle cuffs
Toy wheelSame rule as the handcuffs: soft, adjustable, quick release. Buying a matching set with the wrist cuffs is usually cheaper than two separate pairs.
Shop ankle cuffs on Amazon →Couples conversation deck
Between roundsFor the lull between games or a second date night in the same week. If you like the couples rounds in Spicy Trivia, a deck gives you hundreds more prompts to keep on the coffee table.
Shop couples conversation deck on Amazon →Remote-control vibrator
Toy wheel (hot heat)The toy wheel hands the remote to your partner. Look for a body-safe silicone model with a phone app or a physical remote that works from across the room.
Shop remote-control vibrator on Amazon →Collar and leash
Toy wheel (hot heat)More of a role-play prop than a restraint. Soft, adjustable, and easy to take off. If it is your first one, pick something that looks like a fashion piece rather than hardware.
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Where these show up in the game
The toy wheel unlocks at three spice points on medium and hot heat. Land on a toy you own and your partner puts it on you; land on one you do not own and the wheel offers an alternative dare. The reward wheel is where massage oil and dare dice earn their keep: swap any reward for something better. Read the full rules in how to play, or browse 15 date night games if tonight is not a trivia night.
Frequently asked questions
- Do I need any of this to play Spicy Trivia?
- No. Every toy on the wheel has an alternative dare if you do not own it, and the mild heat level skips the toy and spicy wheels entirely. This list is for couples who want to upgrade the night, not a shopping requirement.
- What should couples buy first?
- A blindfold. It is cheap, comfortable, and it appears on more wheel slices than anything else. Massage oil is a close second because it improves the reward wheel, which you spin every time you answer correctly.
- Are these links affiliate links?
- Yes. As an Amazon Associate, Spicy Trivia earns from qualifying purchases. The links are searches rather than specific products, so you can choose whatever suits your budget and comfort level. Prices do not change for you.