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70 Never Have I Ever Questions for Couples

Never have I ever is the game that gets people to admit things they would never bring up on their own. With two people it gets personal fast. Here are 70 never have I ever questions for couples, from funny confessions to relationship secrets, a few deeper ones, and a flirty finale, plus rules with and without drinks.

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How to play as a couple

  1. Hold up five fingers each. Take turns reading a statement out loud.
  2. Done it? Finger down. You also owe the story. No story, two fingers.
  3. First to zero loses the round. The winner picks a dare. Our truth or dare list has sixty ready to go.

Playing with drinks? Take a sip instead of dropping a finger, and see our drinking games for couples for eleven more.

Funny never have I ever questions

Easy confessions to get the fingers going down.

  1. Never have I ever pretended to know a song and mumbled the words.
  2. Never have I ever eaten something that fell on the floor when nobody was looking.
  3. Never have I ever laughed so hard something came out of my nose.
  4. Never have I ever waved back at someone who was waving at somebody else.
  5. Never have I ever sent a text to the person I was texting about.
  6. Never have I ever fallen asleep in a cinema.
  7. Never have I ever lied about my age.
  8. Never have I ever practised an argument in the shower.
  9. Never have I ever cried at an advert.
  10. Never have I ever stalked an ex online at 2am.
  11. Never have I ever walked into a glass door.
  12. Never have I ever re-gifted a present.
  13. Never have I ever pretended to be on the phone to avoid talking to someone.
  14. Never have I ever googled myself.
  15. Never have I ever eaten a whole pizza by myself.
  16. Never have I ever been told off by a stranger's pet owner.
  17. Never have I ever sung karaoke sober.
  18. Never have I ever faked being sick to skip work or school.
  19. Never have I ever gone a whole weekend without leaving the house.
  20. Never have I ever talked to a plant.

Relationship never have I ever questions

About the two of you. Some of these will start a story.

  1. Never have I ever read your messages over your shoulder.
  2. Never have I ever pretended to like a gift from you.
  3. Never have I ever stolen food off your plate and blamed the dog.
  4. Never have I ever planned what I would say before our first date.
  5. Never have I ever told a friend about our first kiss in detail.
  6. Never have I ever worn your clothes when you were not home.
  7. Never have I ever looked at your profile before we met.
  8. Never have I ever finished a series we were watching together without you.
  9. Never have I ever pretended to be asleep to get out of a chore.
  10. Never have I ever lost an argument and still thought I was right.
  11. Never have I ever practised saying 'I love you' before I said it.
  12. Never have I ever hidden a purchase from you.
  13. Never have I ever cried about us in a happy way.
  14. Never have I ever told my parents something about you before telling you.
  15. Never have I ever kept a receipt, ticket or note from one of our dates.
  16. Never have I ever been jealous of one of your friends.
  17. Never have I ever faked liking your cooking.
  18. Never have I ever imagined our wedding, or our next holiday, in detail.
  19. Never have I ever turned off my phone so you could not reach me.
  20. Never have I ever wanted to say sorry first and waited anyway.

Deeper never have I ever questions

Slower ones. Put the drinks down and let the answers breathe.

  1. Never have I ever felt lonely while we were in the same room.
  2. Never have I ever been scared of losing you.
  3. Never have I ever kept a worry to myself so you would not stress.
  4. Never have I ever thought about the day we met while you were asleep.
  5. Never have I ever changed a plan for my life because of us.
  6. Never have I ever felt proud of you and not said it.
  7. Never have I ever doubted that I was good enough for you.
  8. Never have I ever wished we had met earlier.
  9. Never have I ever cried somewhere you could not see.
  10. Never have I ever apologised for something that was not my fault to keep the peace.
  11. Never have I ever felt completely at home with you.
  12. Never have I ever wanted to tell you something and lost my nerve.
  13. Never have I ever been grateful for an argument we had.
  14. Never have I ever imagined us as old people.
  15. Never have I ever felt understood by you without saying a word.

Flirty never have I ever questions

For the end of the night. Keep the pace slow.

  1. Never have I ever thought about kissing you in the middle of a boring meeting.
  2. Never have I ever picked an outfit hoping you would notice.
  3. Never have I ever reread one of your messages more than five times.
  4. Never have I ever wanted to leave a party early just to be alone with you.
  5. Never have I ever daydreamed about a hotel weekend with you.
  6. Never have I ever kissed you just to win an argument.
  7. Never have I ever smelled your pillow when you were away.
  8. Never have I ever wanted you to kiss me and not said so.
  9. Never have I ever been distracted by your hands.
  10. Never have I ever planned a night in down to the playlist.
  11. Never have I ever sent you a message and blushed after.
  12. Never have I ever wanted to skip dessert and go straight home.
  13. Never have I ever thought about you in the shower.
  14. Never have I ever wanted to try something new with you and not asked.
  15. Never have I ever wanted this game to end so we could do something else.

Keep the night going

Want something even hotter? Our spicy questions for couples include a bolder never-have-I-ever round. Or switch to would you rather for couples for a change of pace.

Frequently asked questions

How do you play never have I ever with two people?
Each of you holds up five fingers. Take turns reading a statement. If you have done it, put a finger down and tell the story. The first person with no fingers left loses the round and owes the other a dare, a massage or the next drink.
Can you play never have I ever without drinking?
Yes. The finger version needs nothing at all, and you can swap sips for kisses, compliments or points. Keep a tally on your phone and let the winner pick the next movie or dessert.
What are good never have I ever questions for couples?
The best ones are specific to relationships: things you might have done around your partner without them knowing. Start funny, move to relationship confessions, and save the flirty ones for last. This list has seventy in that order.