70 Would You Rather Questions for Couples
Would you rather is the fastest way to find out what your partner actually values, and the second fastest way to start laughing. Here are 70 would you rather questions for couples, sorted from silly to romantic to deep, with a flirty finale, plus simple rules for playing it as a game.
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- Read a question out loud. Both of you answer on the count of three.
- Explain your choice. The reason is where the conversation happens.
- Keep score if you like. Matching answers are a point for the team; different answers mean the reader hands out a dare or a sip. Our truth or dare list has sixty dares ready.
Silly would you rather questions
Warm-ups. Every answer needs a reason, and the reason is the fun part.
- Would you rather have a permanent bad haircut or a permanent bad tan line?
- Would you rather only whisper or only shout for a week?
- Would you rather fight one horse-sized duck or a hundred duck-sized horses?
- Would you rather have hands for feet or feet for hands?
- Would you rather give up coffee or give up cheese?
- Would you rather be a background actor in every movie or the lead in one terrible one?
- Would you rather sneeze glitter or cry confetti?
- Would you rather always be ten minutes late or always forty minutes early?
- Would you rather have a pet dragon or be a dragon's pet?
- Would you rather eat only breakfast foods or only dinner foods?
- Would you rather have your search history read aloud or your camera roll shown to my parents?
- Would you rather speak every language or play every instrument?
- Would you rather live in a treehouse or a houseboat?
- Would you rather have a rewind button or a pause button for life?
- Would you rather be famous for something embarrassing or unknown for something brilliant?
- Would you rather never use social media again or never watch a series again?
- Would you rather have a personal chef or a personal driver?
- Would you rather always know the time or always know the temperature?
- Would you rather be able to talk to animals or read minds?
- Would you rather have unlimited tacos or unlimited pizza?
Romantic would you rather questions
Choices about the two of you. Expect a few surprises.
- Would you rather have a slow breakfast in bed or a late-night drive with music?
- Would you rather relive our first date or our first kiss?
- Would you rather get a handwritten letter or a surprise weekend away?
- Would you rather cook together or be cooked for?
- Would you rather slow dance in the kitchen or under the stars?
- Would you rather get a massage or give one and watch me melt?
- Would you rather I planned every date for a year, or you did?
- Would you rather receive a flirty text at work or find a note on your pillow?
- Would you rather a cabin in the snow or a beach with no signal?
- Would you rather have a hundred small surprises or one big one?
- Would you rather I said I love you more, or showed it more?
- Would you rather hold hands everywhere or kiss in public?
- Would you rather hear my favourite thing about you or tell me yours?
- Would you rather a night with no phones or a day with no plans?
- Would you rather recreate our best date or invent a new one?
- Would you rather I learned to cook your favourite dish or you learned mine?
- Would you rather we adopted a dog or a cat next?
- Would you rather renew our vows on a mountain or in our living room?
- Would you rather grow old somewhere warm or somewhere with seasons?
- Would you rather I woke you with coffee or with a kiss?
Deep would you rather questions
Harder choices that say something about what you value.
- Would you rather know exactly when you will meet every goal, or be surprised by all of them?
- Would you rather be remembered for kindness or for achievement?
- Would you rather have more time or more money right now?
- Would you rather always tell the truth or always hear it?
- Would you rather lose all your memories from before we met or all the photos of them?
- Would you rather have one lifelong best friend or a new close friend every year?
- Would you rather be the one who leaves first or the one left behind?
- Would you rather know your partner's biggest fear or their biggest hope?
- Would you rather live near family or somewhere you have always dreamed of?
- Would you rather be very good at your job or very good at rest?
- Would you rather I told you when I am hurting or figured it out yourself?
- Would you rather we argued more honestly or agreed more easily?
- Would you rather have a perfect memory or a perfect sense of direction in life?
- Would you rather learn one big lesson early or many small ones over time?
- Would you rather be understood or be admired?
Flirty would you rather questions
For the end of the night. Answer honestly, or answer with a demonstration.
- Would you rather be teased for an hour or surprised in a second?
- Would you rather I whispered what I want or showed you?
- Would you rather kiss for five minutes without stopping or hold eye contact for one?
- Would you rather a candlelit bath together or a shower we had to keep quiet in?
- Would you rather I wore something you picked, or nothing you picked?
- Would you rather be woken with a kiss or fall asleep after one?
- Would you rather a slow evening or a spontaneous one?
- Would you rather I told you my fantasy, or guessed yours?
- Would you rather play a game where the loser strips, or the winner picks a dare?
- Would you rather be blindfolded, or do the blindfolding?
- Would you rather dance in the kitchen or slow dance in the dark?
- Would you rather a massage that never leads anywhere, or one that definitely does?
- Would you rather I kissed your neck or your hands?
- Would you rather relive our best night or plan a better one?
- Would you rather tonight ended the usual way or differently?
Keep the night going
Out of dilemmas? Try the 21 questions game, couples quiz questions, or a round of drinking games for two.
Frequently asked questions
- How do you play would you rather as a couple?
- Take turns reading a question. Both of you answer at the same time on the count of three, then explain. Matching answers score a point for the team; different answers mean the reader picks a dare or a sip for the other. Keep the flirty section for the end.
- What are good would you rather questions for couples?
- The best ones force a real choice: two things you both like, or two things you both dread. Silly questions warm things up, romantic ones reveal preferences, deep ones show values, and flirty ones set the mood. This list has all four.
- Is there a game version?
- Spicy Trivia is a free two-player browser game that mixes trivia with couples questions and spins a wheel of rewards and dares after every answer. It is a natural next step once you run out of would-you-rathers.